How more important is
communicating when with your friends and loved ones when you are in a foreign
country than when you are in your home country? I’d say pretty important. With
the advances in technology, such as Skype and Face Time, we are now able to
have face to face communication although there are great distances between us.
The combination of new media technology along with the study abroad experience
is what Adrianne Stoner discussed in her lecture. Her focus was on the cultural
shock you experience while studying abroad and if your ability to use new media
to connect with your family and friends back home would lessen that experience.
I found her subject of research
very intriguing because you don’t normally think about the cultural shock you
will experience if you decide to study abroad. When you consider studying
abroad you usually are in the honeymoon phase before you even arrive in your
new country and once you’re there you never think it will end. The U-curve graph
that Adrianne showed really highlighted the fluctuations in emotions that you
will feel once you experience cultural shock. I also think it highlights the
importance between interpersonal communication and impersonal communication.
Through interpersonal
communication you continue to develop bonds and closeness and this type of
communication usually takes place with people you know, people who you have a
close relationship with. You feel more at ease and you’re comfortable and you
usually trust the person that you are speaking with. New media technology
allows you to maintain that interpersonal communication with your family and
friends back at home. Once the honeymoon phase ends and you begin to experience
cultural shock, you really start to feel isolated and you begin to thank the
high heavens that someone thought of Skype and Face Time so you can connect
with you loved ones back home. Due to the fact that you don’t personally know
anyone abroad mostly all of the communication you have will be very generic and
impersonal.
Impersonal communication is the
conversation you have with the cashier at the gas station, a coworker, even a
distant relative. These people don’t really know you, you barely speak, and
when you do it’s usually serving a purpose to move you from point A to point B.
So when you’re abroad, it can be very hard to deal with the fact you don’t have
anyone to connect to personally. And if you can only speak and understand a
tiny amount of their language, then your impersonal communication is definitely
being used for functional purposes.
The last question Adrianne asked
is if your constant connection to your family and friends at home thru new
media technology takes away from your study abroad experience, especially if
your “cultural shock” is lessened? I would love to know what her research
proves, but I think that it could possibly take away from your study abroad
experience. If you will only be abroad for maybe six months to a year and you
spend half of that time home sick and talking with your family on Skype, your
experience will definitely be limited. You would be inhibiting yourself from
learning the new culture, interacting with the citizens and enjoying your time
in another country. However, if your time abroad is longer than a year, as
Adrianne’s U-curve model displayed you will eventually adjust to your new
surroundings and then master them. Although, I still think any large amount of time spent
experiencing cultural shock will have an impact on your experience abroad you
will have more time to make up for it because of your longer duration in the
country.